Teen Relationships From a Girls Point of View

Girls tend to believe that its ok for people to start having relationships earlier than parents believe its ok. They also get more serious about a romantic relationship then guys do. They think that after a couple of months of dating the relationship is serious. Most girls are also more careful about going into a relationship. Studies also show that girls are more influenced by their parents relationship then guys are. How they view their parents relationship is how they think of their relationships. 10% of girls believe that their parents relationship is bad. 41% of girls believe that their parents relationship is ok. Only 49% of girls believe that their parents relationship is good. That’s concerning because that is how they view relationships now and how they will continue to view relationships as they grow up.

Relationships: A Parents Point of View

Most parents believe that the ideal age for their kids to start dating is somewhere around fifteen and sixteen. They decided this age because when you are fifteen and sixteen they think that you more matured and responsible so you know how to make correct decisions. Parents also believe that their teen is more honest about their life when they older. Most parents prefer that before their kids start dating they know that they have mutual respect with their kid, trust, honesty, support, fairness, good communication, and separate identities. Most parents identify that trust and communication are the two most important things that they need to have with their kid before they start dating.

Teen Relationships Affecting Mental Health and When it’s Unhealthy

Romantic relationships in a teens life are one of the most talked about things by their peers. Relationships can have both a positive and negative affect. Dating has been proven to raise self esteem and create a positive attitude. Dating is a major cause of strong emotions in teens. A couple of researchers say that teen relationships are the biggest cause of strong emotions, positive or negative in a teens life. There are a couple of signs that will tell you that you are in a bad relationship. If they become angry with you when you don’t do something they want you to, if they criticize the way you look or dress, keep you from seeing your friends, want you to quit something you love, acts like they are going to hit you when they are angry, or they try to force you to do something you don’t want to do, are all signs that you are in a bad relationship. Romantic relationships can have both a healthy and unhealthy impact on a teens lie and its important to know which the relationship is.

Sources: teen relationships- importance and effect on mental health

the role romantic relationships play in teen relationships

Why Do Teens Try to Kill Themselves…

When teens think of suicide they are trying to escape from a situation that they don’t think they can handle. Teens think that when situations are hard suicide is the only of getting out of it. Some people may feel guilty about something, angry, or ashamed. Other people who commit suicide or attempt are usually trying to escape from feelings of rejection, hurt, or loss. A lot of people feel very sad about not being wanted or maybe they just lost a close family member or friend. We all feel overwhelmed about something at sometime in our life but there is always an easier and better way out than suicide.

Guns don’t kill people. People don’t kill people. Killers kill people.

The world has come to a place where no one can be trusted. A world where the only feelings you have are locked deep down where they cant be seen. This happens until a one of these feelings are pulled up from underneath and shown to the rest of the world. It is when a dark feeling like hate and revenge are expressed that the world crumbles. Guns come into play when these feelings are brought, the mental state of a being gets pushed to the brink until they cant take it anymore.The guns that are used by hunters, sportsman and more importantly used by the United States military.

How to recover from bullying

Millions of people all over the globe are bullied every day. What can we do to help them recover from this traumatic experience? A few answers can be found right here. One of the things that can happen as a side effect of the bullying are nightmares. Many kids have nightmares of their bullying experience after and during being bullied. The best way to help is to be their when they wake. Many kids think it is so real and they wake up alone in a dark, scary room. The second is to make sure they are comfortable enough to relax. After spending every second afraid of their bully, ducking in the halls, always being tense,etc. They need to be able to relax and sleep good. Getting a good night’s sleep can be essential to being happy and relaxed Good-night and sleep tight!

On the path to recovery from bullying

at this time in your life, your self-esteem can be at an ultimate low. This is a time in your life when you need good friends. Friends who will make you feel safe and wanted. Friends who will raise your self-esteem, increase your self-confidence, and solidify your feelings of self-worth. They need to be friends you feel comfortable around. Again, you need to be able to relax. you should be able to talk to them about your thoughts, feelings, worries, and problems. They should appreciate you and your personality. Friends can heal you.